Blame self Exaggerate faults Partial selec- tive view Self as loser End of the road Unlovable Error unfor- givable Narcissistic orientation Serve self Indulgent self-evalua- tion Self as center of life Blame ego’s ignorance Transcend limi- tations Balanced over- all view Self as cor- rected Beginning of the new Worth as child of God Error as lesson Concern for others Serve life Let go of egois- tic position Self as partici- pant in life