| Blame self | Blame ego’s ignorance |
| Exaggerate faults | Transcend limitations |
| Partial selective view | Balanced overall view |
| Self as loser | Self as corrected |
| End of the road | Beginning of the new |
| Unlovable | Worth as child of God |
| Error unforgivable | Error as lesson |
| Narcissistic orientation | Concern for others |
| Serve self | Serve life |
| Indulgent self-evaluation | Let go of egoistic position |
| Self as center of life | Self as participant in life |